A fundamental shift in your attitude

By now, you've probably gathered that this Tao of Dating course is a little different from your average dating book. And, as much as I'd love to have you buy my stuff (all of it, please), that's not all I'm looking for.

This is what I want:

I want you to be the most fulfilled, empowered, best version of you possible.

Why?

Well, why the heck not? Besides the fact that growth may very well be our purpose in life, imagine the world we would create if all women were deliriously happy and totally in their power. That would be pretty glorious. Come to think of it, I kind of like being around deliriously happy women.

I do have a small confession to make. There is a very personal aspect to this, too. It has to do with one of my college classmates, Holly. I hope you don't mind my sharing this story with you. It might resonate with you if you've ever been in a relationship that left something to be desired.

Story #2: Hopeful Holly

Ah, this story just breaks my heart.

This is just a few months ago. I was still writing The Tao of Dating for Women, and frankly, it was hard going (you may have noted I'm a guy writing a dating book for women -- a little sympathy here). I was visiting Boston in late 2008, having dinner with two of my college classmates, Ariela and Holly.

Both are professional women in their thirties; both are charming, sweet, attractive and divorced. Ariela is single without kids; Holly has a daughter and is seeing someone. Let's call him Tim. Ariela clearly does not approve of Tim, so I decide to get the full story.

“Tell me about this guy,” I ask Holly.

She responds, “Well, he's really tall and handsome; the sex is great; he's really sweet most of the time; he's a bit of the starving-artist type, and he's not as successful as I am, so I've been supporting him for the past couple of years.”

So far, so bad. I sensed she was holding back, and called her on it. And – really sweet most of the time? What's up with that?

“Well, when we first met he was just such a sweetheart. But lately he's been sniping at me, putting me down for no reason. And when I spend time with my friends he gets really jealous and makes me feel guilty.”

“Tell him what happened when your daughter fell down the stairs,” said Ariela with a fire of barely concealed rage in her eyes.

Holly hesitated. “Well, last month my daughter fell down the stairs at home and cut her head open. There was blood everywhere, and we rushed her to the hospital. I was so shaken, and I just needed Tim to be by my side, so I called him up. He didn't come.”

Didn't come? Just like that? And you're still dating this dude?

“He said he was afraid of blood, and he just couldn't deal with the situation.”

My heart sank. How was this possible? Why was this amazing woman wasting another minute of her life on this unworthy man? What else is happening that she's not sharing with us? How many other women like her were stuck in the same place?

At this point, Ariela and I made a very clear case for why Holly needed to break it off with this guy immediately. Then Ariela looked me in the eye and held my right forearm for emphasis: “Alex, you have a duty to finish this book as quickly as possible.”

I realized that if my book could help even one woman like Holly (and Monica) reclaim their power, then I had a moral obligation to complete it and bring it to light.

Two months after that chat, I finished The Tao of Dating for Women. And Holly asked Tim (who turns out was also physically abusing her) to move out and never contact her again, not a minute too soon.

The Tao of Dating course is designed to help you make a fundamental shift in your attitude so that you can never be stuck in a situation like that.

We're going to do that not just by giving not just a book, but a whole way of internalizing the information and making it part of your behavior.

Here's what you get

When you purchase the Tao of Dating Home Study Course for Women, you get the following seriously cool items and bonuses:

1) 'How to Be A Modern Goddess' Teleseminar and Transcript. Want to be a goddess? Well, you already are -- this is just a refresher.

This is material not covered in The Tao of Dating. It's a 55min audio mp3 of a teleseminar I gave to my private list, along with a 25-page transcript. Value: well, a session with a shrink will run you at least $100 (more if you're in New York City), and this talk's bound to make you feel better than that, so let's just go with $100.

2) Coaching through the Tao of Dating e-lessons. You know how happy you are to get an email reminder (from, say, E-vite or Facebook) to a party that you really wanted to go to all along, but it had just slipped your mind? Then you go to the party and think, "Wow, I'm so glad I got that message."

Well, that's exactly what these 20 quick coaching emails do. Over the course of several months, they come straight to your inbox and contain exercises and excerpts from the text to uplift and motivate you -- and to make sure you're doing them.

To the best of my knowledge, there are no other courses out there (except for programs that cost thousands of dollars) that do that for you. Value: even at a mere $2 per email coaching session, it's at least $40.

3) Audio recordings of key exercises and meditations from the text. Many of the exercises and meditations in the book are better experienced with your eyes closed. These audio recordings allow you to do just that. Value: If you were to get this stuff from iTunes or Audible.com, it would probably run you at least $20.

4) Additional bonuses from my excellent partners and colleagues. These are seminars and booklets from renowned dating experts on understanding men, finding the right man online, the three keys to building intimacy, and a lot more. They actually sell this stuff on their own sites for real money, so I'm going to say conservatively it's worth $120.

5) The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Embracing Your Inner Goddess and Finding the Fulfillment You Deserve -- the main text. The complete 280-page text in ebook, printed text or audiobook format (or all three). Your choice. Value of helping you embrace your inner goddess and find the fulfillment your deserve: I'd say pretty much priceless.

You're getting about 12 items in total, give or take, which brings the total value of the package to priceless + $280. Which means more than $280, at the very least.

Here's what others have had to say about The Tao of Dating so far

Perhaps by now you're pretty interested in getting the book, but you just need a little more information before you go ahead and purchase. Great! The whole point of the book is to figure out things for yourself, so let me help you do just that.

Here's what others have had to say about the book. Some are dating experts; some are smart, single women just like you; some are both:

Let's wrap this up for you

Let me make a little confession here: I wrote this book because nobody taught us this stuff: how to connect meaningfully with another human being, how to get intimate with that person, how to keep and wield your power in the dating world so you're happy and fulfilled.

And you know what? That's pretty important stuff! Some may even say that meaningful connections are the most important things in our lives.

Mom didn't tell us about this. Dad didn't. Our teachers didn't. So we struggled with it (especially yours truly, who had his first kiss at age nineteen).

You know what? I don't want you to struggle with it anymore. I want you to succeed instead. So you can get rid of the pain of trial and error, bypass ten years of dating the wrong duds instead of the right dudes, and go straight to the path of fulfillment and a deliriously happy love life.

I want this to be the dating textbook you they never gave you in college but should have and your ultimate cheatsheet on guys. Written by a guy who knows how guys think, especially the smart, successful affluent ones.

Now is this going to work for 100% of people? Of course not.

But what if the information in this book allows you to have just one more date with a truly amazing guy? And you look back and treasure the memory of your magical time together for years to come?

What if, after reading this book, you grow so much in your own power such that you realize you don't really need a guy to complete you? Then, when you come from that space of self-sufficiency, all the great guys start to notice you a lot more -- wouldn't that be an interesting result?

What if the exercises and cases in this course help you realize that you (or a close friend) are in a bad situation and help you snap out of it and save yourself a whole lot of pain and heartbreak?

How much is that worth? Can you even put a price on that? A thousand bucks? Twenty thousand? Maybe it wasn't entirely a joke when I said this course could be priceless to you.

What if the principles you learn in this course help you find, keep and flourish a relationship with a guy who not only makes you feel like a million bucks but also continues to grow with you into deeper and deeper love?

What if the exercises in this book help you truly embrace your inner goddess so you become a light unto everyone around you?

The point is this: I know people who have spent their entire LIVES not knowing the secrets in this book. They plod along in their mediocre relationships, wondering why they're not fulfilled and not able to do anything about it.

Well, you're a smart woman. And you have every right to be happy. And I want to make sure that when that guy who's just right for you saunters into your life, you know exactly what to do and what to say to make the most of it. I want you to save your precious time and energy. I want you to win.

The power of now

Here's a final crucial point, and I want you to read it carefully.

You've heard of the 'power of now', right? Everything that happens -- everything that has ever happened -- happens in the now.

Nothing happens tomorrow or yesterday. And when it comes to taking care of this aspect of your life, one thing I know as a therapist: if you don't take action right now, chances are very small that you're going to take care of it in the future.

Then you're stuck in the same spot pretty much forever. Nothing changes if nothing changes.

So I invite you to take action. And get yourself the Tao of Dating for Women course now. You've got 30 days to go through the course to figure out that it's right for you. And if it's not, you can always get a refund. So it's truly risk-free for you to try.

But if you don't at least give it a shot, and that amazing relationship slips out of your fingers just because you didn't know a couple of crucial points that were right there smack-dab front and center in the book -- then that would be a terrible shame.

Here's how it works

When you press the order link below, you will be taken to a page to select the package you want. You'll have the choice to get the electronic version of the text or add to that the printed version, or both the printed version and the audiobook. After you click on your choice, you're taken to my secure order page for your credit card information.

You probably think this course, with all the bonuses and extras, is going to cost hundreds of dollars. Well, the information in it is worth thousands -- that much I know, since that's how much it cost to compile it all!

At the same time, I do want to make the book accessible, so I'm pricing the e-book, including all the extras and bonuses, at a very reasonable price -- a mere $29.95. For a little more, you can add the printed text. And for under 50 beans, you can get the whole package including the MP3 audiobook so you can listen to the deep rumble of my mellifluous voice wherever you go. It's a lot less than a Gucci bag or a pair of Pradas, and I bet it'll do you a lot more good.

Your transaction is 100% secure, using the latest in encryption technology to ensure your privacy and security. It will be billed as 'TheTaoofDating.com Elite Communications' and will include our toll-free U.S. phone number.

The entire process takes a couple of minutes. You should be able to download your book and start reading within 5 minutes -- no waiting for shipments, no lost packages, no hunting in bookstores. This means you can start making you life even better pretty much right now.

I want you to be totally sure about this investment, so here's my guarantee to you:

Make better decisions consistently

My job here is simple: I'm here to help you make good decisions. Can you remember a time when you made a really good decision -- one that you were truly pleased with?

Now I don't know how you knew for sure that it was a good decision. Maybe it was something you read, or something you heard, or something you saw, or a feeling you got. But as you go back to that situation, you know what a good decision feels like, right? It feels good, doesn't it.

Well, that's how I want you to feel over and over again as you implement the principles in this book -- to get that 'good decision' feeling. And that's how I want you to feel right now as you're deciding to invest in The Tao of Dating for yourself. Because I want you to know for sure that it's right for you.

I want you to be able to think of a time in the future, maybe 6 months or even 2 years from now, when you're looking back on this day. And you're remembering all of the great memories you've had with a fantastic guy (or guys) you met as a result of implementing the principles in Tao of Dating.

Maybe you'll think of all the fun Sunday brunches you've shared together. All the Friday nights you've snuggled together to watch a movie. All the trips you've taken, the places you've been, the days and nights you've spent together.

You think of how beautiful he makes you feel, bringing out the goddess in you, and how you grow in love and support for one another.

Maybe down the road you'll even be married and have kids in a beautiful home that is your sanctuary and hearth of love.

Then maybe you can look back on today, when you made the decision to get this resource for yourself and apply it to your life, and recognize it as the beginning of all that love and fulfillment, and say to yourself, "You know, I'm really glad I got the Tao of Dating for myself that day."

You deserve all of that and more. And nothing would make me happier than to see you have it all. But the next step is up to you.

As the old Persian saying goes, "From you, action; from heaven, blessings." You always do stuff for other people; maybe now it's time to do something for yourself for a change.

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Thanks for your attention. I hope you find the resources on this page useful.

All the best to you,

Dr Alex Benzer

P.S.: This course is about you taking control of your love life so you can experience long-term fulfillment -- and by long-term, I mean for the rest of your life. Whether you're single and looking, with a guy you're not sure about, or just new to this whole world of dating and wondering how to do it right, this book can help you. With my 30-day satisfaction guarantee, I've removed all the risk to you so it's pure benefit. If you're not happy with it, you simply email us at service (at)thetaoofdating.com and get your money back. If this sounds like what you need, you owe it to yourself to give it a shot.

P.P.S: If you feel you're almost going to purchase and just need a little more information to make an informed choice, just enter your name and primary email below and we're happy to send you more informative free samples. The 'good stuff only' promise still holds.

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